A personalised, attachment-informed response to your experience
Note: these responses are not a replacement for mental health advice, counselling, or any other mental health service. The serve to provide entertainment, insights, and evidence-based information to try and help you (and others) understand your situation from an attachment theory and behavioural lens.
Trauma-aware support for those navigating heartbreak, emotional turmoil, and seeking reconnection.
If you’ve been turning your situation over in your mind, a breakup, confusing attachment dynamic, or repeating relational pattern, and want a grounded, evidence-aligned perspective, this service offers just that.
Send me your story (up to 2,000 words) and your specific questions.
After confirming with you that your letter is suitable for a reading, I will record my reading your letter, provide my insights, and the video will then be posted on The Reconnection Co.'s YouTube and Spotify channels.
Your submission form will give you the flexibility to tailor how I respond.
In addition to sharing your story, you are given the option to select the 'style' of reading you are seeking.
For example, reactions and validation, understanding attachment behaviours.
You also direct the focus of your response by asking up to 3 focused questions relating to your sitiuation.
For example, "Why do I keep getting drawn back to my ex, even when I know it's not healthy?", "Why do I keep falling into the same type of relationships?"
How it Works
1. Purchase your letter reading submission.
2. You will receive 2 emails after completing your purchase.
1. Purchase confirmation.
2. Submission form link with instructions - please check your junk/spam folders.
3. I will read your response, check the word count, and confirm the estimated time of recording & publishing.
If the word count exceeds the 2000 word limit, additional fees (per 500 words) are applicable. I will communicate with you about this and an additional invoice will be sent.
After payment the session will be confirmed and I will be able to provide an estimated time of recording and publishing.
The Reconnection Co. letter readings are designed to provide insight, clarity, and understanding of your situation.
Podcasts are publicly available and are for entertainment and educative purposes only.
What You Can Expect
Upon purchase and confirmation of a reading, you will be advised on the approximate turn-around time and when the reading will likely be published.
The purpose of these readings is to give you a sense of understanding and validation of your experience.
In addition to providing insights and education on relationships for both yourself and other viewers.
The form you complete helps me understand your situation, background, and key questions, so I can offer a reflective and attachment-informed response that’s personalised to your situation.
All letter readings will be de-identified (names, age, locations, occupations etc. will be altered)
Please remember, typical word limits are 2000 words. You are able to add additional words, though this will attract additional fees per 500 words.
You’re welcome to use dot-points or short sentences.
Should you exceed the word count, you will be notified via email and an additional invoice will be sent to cover the additional fee prior to recording and publishing the video.
Common structures for readings;
- Overview of key players (you, your ex, other people).
- Relationship overview (how you met, how long you were involved, type of relationship, common themes).
- Main events (e.g., breakup and how it played out - lead-up, event, aftermath).
- Current experience that you're struggling with.
- Answering your key questions
!! What’s Not Included !!
The Letter Readings are designed for entertainment and educative purposes only. Responses are designed to help you gain perspective, move toward emotional clarity, and give you an understanding of what is happening.
Please remember, there are important boundaries to keep in mind.
The letter readings do not include:
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Specific advice on what you should do
I’ll guide you toward understanding your patterns, values, and emotional needs, not instruct you on fixed actions. My role is to help you explore choices with awareness, not make them for you.
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Diagnosis or treatment of any mental health condition
I don’t assess, diagnose, or treat any clinical, psychological condition; such as depression, anxiety disorders, or trauma-related disorders.
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Psychological counselling or mental health services
Whilst informed by therapeutic frameworks, this service is coaching and education, not therapy or psychological treatment.
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Therapeutic interventions reserved for registered professionals
Approaches like CBT, EMDR, DBT, or trauma therapy are outside the scope of coaching and should be accessed through a licensed mental health practitioner.
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Crisis support or acute mental health care
If you’re in distress or unsafe, please reach out to your local crisis service or helpline immediately.
I am not a counsellor, psychologist or therapist. I am currently completing an accredited Diploma of Counselling (Australia).
Disclaimer
This is not therapy, mental health treatment, or professional psychological care.
Coaching services, email responses, letter readings, and all other associated content are not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or crisis support.
If you are experiencing significant mental health challenges, please consult a qualified mental health professional or crisis support service in your area.